For a man there is absolutely nothing to equal the ecstasy of a woman sucking and licking his penis a supremely sexy gesture a woman can perform .
It has come to my attention that there is a terrible rumour going around about men that they are selfish in bed. Hey, I'll admit, there's not a man I know who will decline oral sex from a woman he fancies. I mean, it's a blowjob! It's one of the all time greatest discoveries just ahead of Columbus finding America. Still, I take issue with this rumour. Because as much as men like to receive, they also love to give. If it's not already obvious why, let me explain.
It Extends The Pleasure
The penetration part of sex generally only lasts a few minutes. I didn't make this up. There is actual research on this and even stats on which state lasts the longest in bed. So a fella's best hope for marathon sex or you know, sex that lasts longer than a commercial break is to dedicate a little a time to you alone.
Increases Our Odds of a Dual Climax
If there were a race toward orgasm, men would win every time. But it's not a race sex is a team sport. And getting you revved up before the main event makes it a little more likely that we'll get to cross the finish line together.
Ways to Spice Up Oral Sex
The Feeling of Your Fingers in Our Hair The sexy scalp massage we get when we're doing our thing is definitely a bonus. Our scalps are covered with nerve endings that rarely receive attention, and you're really the only person we want going to town up there. We'd rather eat a set of shears than ask our barber for a scalp massage. So don't be afraid to get in there a little tugging isn't bad, either.
Slow Down and Appreciate The Body
Every guy has his own pet spots on a ladies body. They're the curves and angles that are fully sexualised in his mind, even though you've never given them much though. Maybe it's the sloping arch of the back, the smooth skin beneath the belly button, or the way your hip bone moves flirtatiously beneath your skin. From this vantage point, men really get to take it all in.
Can I Ask a Guy to Go Down On Me?
It's a Hell of a Lot More Fun Than a Foot Rub Believe it or not, we like making you feel good. So if you ask for a foot rub or a back massage, we'll give it to you. But will a foot rub or back massage get you off? Probably not. The truth is, guys love it when you orgasm, and with oral sex, the odds are in our favor.
Focus on What Matters
We know we have the tendency to ignore your clitoris during intercourse, and we definitely want to apologize about that we know the C spot is pretty crucial for orgasm. But man that thing is tiny! It's like trying to hit a quarter inch target while being distracted by the rest of your naked body. With oral sex, we have an unobstructed, distraction free opportunity to make it up to you, and we're up to the task.
Physical and emotional
Nothing is as intimate as oral sex not even intercourse. And when you open yourself up to us like that, we feel insanely close to you both physically and emotionally. It's not like we expect reciprocation we absolutely don't but it's one of life's great truisms that the more one gives, the more one receives. So whether we get the favor returned immediately, another night, or never, we know that pleasing you is putting out good sex vibes. Plus, getting you all revved up means there's a pretty good chance something awesome is about to happen next. And who wouldn't be happy about that?